From April, 2016

Signs of a F*ckboy

We all know who they are and we have all dealt with them (personally or through a friend, because they dealt with one). They’re the ones who disguise themselves as a good guy and then just randomly one day decide to show their true colors in the most fucked up way.  They  make your heart…

Much Needed Weekend

This past weekend, I went to Bowling Green to visit my people there.  Friday night was the annual Miss Black Western pageant that my sorority host every year.  There were 18 girls in the pageant and nothing short of amazing.  The winner did a great job and during her personal narrative, had the entire audience crying.  We went to a house party afterwards and created a lot of memories with my line sisters.  I met some of the Alpha neos, btw one of them is cute but he is short -_- (if someone who knows me and the Alphas is…

I Hate My Job, But I Can’t Afford to Quit

  We have all been in this situation before, whether it was a job you had while in high school, after high school, during college, or after college.  You hate it because of your co-workers who you just can’t seem to get along with, your boss who seems to always pick on you, or you just plain hate your job. If you ask any of my friends, they will tell you that I am the Queen of getting jobs and quitting them, but that was all throughout college and at the time, I could afford to quit the job if…

How to Handle Not Getting that Job You Wanted

Unless you’ve had extremely good luck, you’re just that good at interviews, or you’ve never had a job before than we’ve all been there before.  Thought you killed that interview and know you had the job, but before you even got home you already had an email waiting for you that said, “Thank you for your interest in the position of *insert position* with *insert company*.  We have carefully reviewed your skills and qualifications.  Unfortunately, we can’t hire you.” Or maybe you just don’t ever hear back from the company after your interview. Once you got this e-mail or realized…

Realities of Being Single

The Harsh Realities of Being Single  You get stuck in your ways.  You tend to things your way and how you want to do them and it gets hard to change your ways once you get into a relationship with someone. 2.  Sometimes you wish you had someone to cuddle with.  According to some scientist, sleeping in the same bed with a partner provides an array of health benefits.  Have you ever been laying in bed and just thought about how you wished you had someone to cuddle up with? 3.  When you get sick, there’s no one there to…

When Is It Time to Let Go?

We’ve all been in a relationship before that was toxic but for some reason we didn’t know how to let go of that person.  Maybe that person consistently cheated on you or physically and mentally abused you.  Whatever the reason may be, there is always some reason holding you back in the relationship.  Maybe it’s the sex or you feel like you have on one else in your life but them. Below are 5 reasons when it’s time to let the relationship go? 1.  You can’t resolve the problem.  No matter how hard you guys try, it’s the SAME problem…